The Best Way To Overcome Depression
Any person who has suffered with depression or who is currently suffering with depression will fully appreciate just how badly it can affect our lives. It is something that kind of creeps us on when we are least expecting it and then hits us for six. It can leave us feeling unable to complete the most simplest of tasks. The only way people can think is in the negative and the words of wisdom of people trying to help us only ever fall on deaf ears.
I suffered from a long bout of depression when I was in my teens. This was mainly due to the fact that I had a speech impediment, a stutter. This was something that virtually destroyed my self-esteem and despite my best efforts to increase confidence the stutter would always come back to bite me and ruin what ever progress I had made.
I did not want to continue living in this way, with a constant fear of stuttering, being down and depressed. The main problem however was the fact that the people who were meant to be helping me, the speech and language therapists, were forever telling me that there was not a known cure for stuttering. Well this was great news; I really needed to hear that! How was I ever supposed to break free from the cycle of depression and how was I ever supposed to start thinking positively when I had people like this destroying whatever hope that I had?
I was very lucky to have an extremely supportive family who worked very hard to help me to get back to reality. They convinced me to fight against this tide of negativity and to believe in myself. There was only one way to think and that was in a positive manner. I had to ignore what the speech therapists had said and had to keep believing that I could one day achieve fluency. I also had to start working hard to enable this day to become a reality.
My dad once stated:
“There is no time for depression; you have too much work to do – to eradicate the stutter and to learn how to increase your overall confidence levels”.
I worked very hard and had some major battles with my inner demons but was eventually able to overcome the depression and the stuttering problem.
Steve Hill, The How To Stop Stuttering Centre
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